Thank You, Anonymous Donor
June 14th, 2008
This is me a week ago yesterday. What a horrible couple of weeks.
To bring you all up to speed… not only did we lose our twins at 13 weeks, but after the D&C I had on Friday, May 30th, I apparently retained some tissue that caused internal bleeding and hemorraging. On Wednesday, June 4th, I went to the doctor (had to see one of my doctor’s partners since my doctor was in surgery) and he prescribed methergine to control the bleeding.
Needless to say, 24-hours later on Thursday, June 5th, I was back at the doctor’s for an ultrasound after no improvement. The ultrasound found my uterus to be still about 14-week size (since it was carrying twins, it was about 18-week size the week before) and FULL of huge blood clots. They sent me straight over to the hospital for a second D&C.
After this second surgery, I wasn’t feeling very well at all. That combined with an insanely low blood pressure had SavvyDad insisting I spend the night at the hospital for observation. An excellent decision. By the next day, they discovered I had lost so much blood that I needed a blood transfusion. Two units of O+ later, followed by 12 hours of sleep, and I felt like a new woman. I woke up Saturday morning feeling better than I had in months.
Since arriving home from the hospital, I have been on varying degrees of bed rest — for a day or two there it was bed rest with bathroom privileges ONLY — and am now healing normally.
I have so much more to say and to share about this entire experience, but will save it for another day. Today I would like to leave you with this…
As SavvyDad so eloquently wrote on his Flickr page: “We’d like to thank anyone who donates blood, as someone’s generosity has immensely helped her [my] recovery. We are deeply grateful to you, anonymous donor.”

June 14th, 2008 at 1:26 pm
You have been through such a harrowing experience, I am so glad you are on your way to being well now.
June 14th, 2008 at 7:38 pm
You and me both. Thank you for being there for us emotionally, though you are so far away physically!
June 17th, 2008 at 1:16 pm
I’m so so so sorry! I know there’s nothing I can say that will make you feel better, so I will just say that I’m so sorry you have to go through this. I’m thinking of you!
June 26th, 2008 at 5:03 pm
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